IF YOUR DOG IS OVERWEIGHTBeing overweight is as bad for a dog as it is for a human. Dogs can have joint problems, diabetes, heart problems and so on just as humans do from carrying excess weight. Just as obesity can seriously shorten a human’s life – it can also shorten a dog’s life. A dog that is overweight certainly lives a lesser quality of life!Once again we have to be fair to the dog first and foremost – if you are feeding your dog a commercially manufactured dog kibble that contains grains the diet you are feeding your dog is causing spiked hunger pains – read this and then get your dog on a grain-free, toxin-free, carcinogen-free dog kibble, or you can make homemade dog food, or feed raw species appropriate food. Dogs require species appropriate diets to be healthy – mentally and physically.
There are several things you should do. First make sure that there is no medical reason for the excess weight, such as a thyroid issue – your veterinarian can do a simple blood test to ensure weight gain is not due to any medical issue.
If you are certain that your dog’s health is good, then you really need to take a look at your dog’s daily regimen…
A – Does your dog get enough exercise on a daily basis? When it comes to exercise, all dogs need exercise – small breed, medium and large breed dogs. For some dogs a daily brisk 30 minute walk might be ok, while other dogs may require two 40 minute to 60 minute walks a day…just like people, every dog is different.
B – Do you feed your dog too much food? Do you feed your dog the wrong foods?
And you really need to take a look at your habits – sorry, but this is often the root of the problem with your dog’s weight. I can’t help you and your dog if I do not push you to see how we affect our dogs!
C – Many people use food to show affection and love to their dogs…this can lead to significant weight gain, deterioration of health and quality of life as well as behavioral problems;
D – Many people also use treats as their primary or even sole method of ‘training’ their dog – I do not recommend this!
First of all dogs do not use treats as their primary method of instructing each other, they use body language and state-of-being as a primary teaching tool – we should too!
On Dogs and Opportunism
Affection and Your Dog
How Dogs Communicate
LeadershipAbout 50% of Dogs in North America are overweight. When my client’s dogs are overweight I usually ask them a serious of questions and then provide them with information and advice on how to regain control of their dog’s weight.One of the most common issues I see is that people leave food in their dog’s bowl 24/7. This is even more of an issue if you have multiple dogs – as some dogs have a built in sensor that tells them when to stop eating, other dogs will keep eating until there is nothing left to eat. Much like people!
Dogs are not grazers like rabbits, horses and cows. Dogs are hunters and are biologically evolved to eat their meal and then fast until the next meal. When we leave food out for them on a constant basis we create an unnatural condition. It is far better to feed your dog twice or three times a day. If your dog does not eat all of the food in their bowl within a matter of minutes lift the bowl up and offer a little less food next time.
To reduce your dog’s weight – don’t do anything drastic, just cut back their regular portions by a small amount and allow your dog to lose weight slowly. Once your dog has lost the desired amount of weight you can increase the food a tiny bit and maintain from there.
IF YOUR DOG IS UNDERWEIGHT
Again, make sure that there is no medical condition at the root of your dog’s inability to gain weight.
To understand more about what comprises good nutrition in a dog kibble, and some alternate food stuffs that are rich in nutrients, antioxidants, good quality omega fatty acids and healthy soluble fibre for your dogs you can read this short article.
Coconut oil can be an aid in helping your dog loose weight as can turmeric / curcumin – all three have many other health benefits as well. OK, so now we need to fix the whining and begging for food issue…SO YOUR DOG WHINES OR BARKS AT YOU WHEN IT WANTS FOOD…
Did you teach it to do this as a little trick? Did your dog just start this own its own? Or perhaps the dog is a rescue and this is a behaviour that the dog already had. Or maybe your dog is a rescue and has been traumatized in the past by not receiving food on a regular basis.
No matter what the reason, you might find this behaviour to be kind of cute and endearing at first. But, unless you have also taught your dog the threshold – the limit, when to stop…this behaviour can be:
A – Habit forming;
B – May escalate to dominating, reactivity, anxious, neurotic behaviour;
If this happens, it can really get you irritated, which will make the dog more anxious = psychological damage to your dog and to you.
Yeap, not so good and definitely not cute any more!
SO WHAT SHOULD YOU DO TO STOP THE BEHAVIOUR?
FIRST LET’S TALK ABOUT THE PSYCHOLOGICAL SIDE OF THINGS.
When your dog demands attention and rewards (whether food, affection, toys, etc.) your dog is taking control of the situation – this is not good, as you have just surrendered control of the situation to your dog and in so doing have lost some of his respect for you as a leader. Please take note this is not the same as when your dog looks at you for direction…in this case your dog is not asking he is telling!
If your dog is a rescue, underweight or overweight and you feel sorry for him, you are adding and abetting this bad habit. Stop feeling bad for your dog – this undermines his self confidence and can make him anxious and if your lack of leadership continues your dog can become aggressive reactive…pushiness can grow exponentially.
If you are starting to feel annoyed or frustrated with your dog, you are only going to increase his will to bark. Your lack of control of your emotions reinforces his understanding that you are not in control of the situation. More reason for him to take over! If you yell at your dog to stop barking – you are barking too, and that is leading by the wrong example.
Please do not say to your dog ‘would you just stop that!’ or I wish you would stop doing that’, or ‘you are bothering me, quite it!’ If you do this you are not providing direction, nor are you embracing the role of leader. You are whining and complaining not providing direction! When we whine instead of direct, we give our dog a choice – you can listen to me or not. Just like humans, most will choose the ‘not’ option.
Before you read any further – read these two articles if you have not already. They will only take you a few minutes to read – but will really improve your understanding of how dogs assign respect to their humans and how our state of being can either work for us or against us in our endeavor to direct our dogs.
The Sensitivity of Dogs
SO WHAT SHOULD YOU DO?
Train yourself, coach and mentor your dog. If you ask the right way your dog will listen – he does not need to be trained…but you do! Get your emotional state under control, engage your working mode on and let’s go.
Before you attempt to direct your dog…set your expectations…
First – remember that your dog has been doing this for awhile – I have the experience to make change immediate, you probably do not so be patient. Be calm, be deliberately confident, be assertive but fair, and have the expectation in your mind that your dog will listen. You need to be consistent, persistent and100% committed to the direction you provide (your dog knows when your are not!). Your will must be stronger than your dogs.
Be prepared to give a full instruction. A full instruction consists of:
1 – Getting your dogs attention;
2 – Telling him what you do not what him to do;
3 – Telling him what you do want him to do instead, and;
4 – Following through to correct him if he backslides into the unwanted behaviour.
The leadership role is one of coaching and mentoring with fair, firm, clear direction. Never match your dog’s state but you do have to match the intensity of his behaviour. I see a lot of people doing only step 2. Then the poor dog gets in trouble as it goes back to doing the unwanted behaviour as its human has not provided a full set of instructions! Blame yourself, not your dog!
Firstly, if you dog barks you have to disagree right away. If you wait and then address your dog he will not understand what you are disagreeing with. To disagree with the bark you can:
A – Say ‘shh’ or ‘no’;
B – Snap your fingers;
C – Or give your dog a ‘nip’ (take your fingers and form a claw like shape, quickly tap your fingers once against your dog’s waist or neck and say ‘no’ or ‘shh’
Remember that the energy behind the direction is everything. Your emotions must be disengaged, you must be calm, assertive-confident, never angry, frustrated etc.
If your dog begs for food, you can use the same technique to discourage the begging.
Remember that when we develop a habit it takes time, effort and commitment to get rid of the habit…affecting change may take hours, days, weeks or more. So to with dogs.
Further, your strength as a leader and affective communicator will determine how quickly the behaviour can be turned around. I can affect change immediately because I have trained myself to be aware, I use instinct and intuition and have a lot of experience working with dogs in all states of being. You will have to be patient and fair with yourself and your dog to achieve success as your experience is less comprehensive. Not to worry, just boost your commitment to achieving your goal and you will move along at a good pace.